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After this hijrah, a lot have changed.
Alhamdulilllah. It's positive changes.
My perceptions of the current issues & my surroundings absolutely change.
What I meant?
This is what I meant. Keep scrolling~
#PERCEPTION 1 (This is a bit long since it's a serious issue)
Before, I support each of my friends being in relationship.
No jokes, I was a "love doctor" for a lot of my friends.
I encourages them to be in relationships, to be couples.
Allahu. What a bad friend I was before. :(
Now, my perceptions towards being in relationship changes
I don't support at all any of my friends being in relationships
I'm no longer being a "love doctor" encouraging my friends to go on their love relationship without being married to each other.
NO MORE.
All I would say to my friends who tell their love story & love problems was "Get married if you really love each other"
There was time my friend faced a love problem, a guy asked her to be his girlfriend
What I thought was A BIG NO!
Just think of it again, you're happy enough with your friends and a guy comes interrupting your friendship.
You've seen a lot of friendships become worse just because of a love relationship right?
Think deeply!
Regardless you're holding hands or not, regardless you're hugging or not.
It's still a BIG BIG BIG BIG NO from me.
Sincerely,
Your friend who loves you
#PERCEPTION 2
Before, I support whoever says they're forever alone.
I thought that having no boyfriend gonna make you feel alone.
Now, I put a big NO to that statement.
Where's Allah in your heart?
NO GUY isn't going to be effecting your life to be alone or whatsoever.
AS LONG AS ALLAH IS BY YOUR SIDE and remember that ALLAH IS ALWAYS THERE!
Pray often, don't miss your compulsory 5 times prayers a day, Zikrullah, recite the Al-Quran!
There you go. You won't be feeling alone.
#PERCEPTION 3
Before, I support beautiful girls with beautiful hairs, beautiful skins.
I would say "So beautiful", "So sweet".
Now, for me, yes. You're beautiful. But...
"Isn't it better for you to cover everything and make a surprise for your future husband?"
That's gonna be sweet. Imagine your husband will be uncover your head for the first time, stroking you unseen hair before. Isn't it nice?
Sweetie, cover your aurah okay? It's nice. More beautiful than you reveal it. #SeriousTalk
Till here first. InsyaAllah I will update some more. :)
Lots of love from me!
-NUR FARAHDINIE